We arrived in Guangzhou, in the south east of China, on Friday afternoon. The purpose of this leg of the trip is to have a medical appointment for Hannah to be sure she will not bring any communicable diseases into the US and to have her visa granted so she can enter the United States. She will travel on a Chinese passport with a US visa, but will become a US citizen as soon as we enter the United States.
Our medical appointments were on Saturday morning. Our guide, Helen, met us early in the lobby to take us over to the medical building where each of the children were evaluated. We were so thankful she had arranged for us to go early, because by the time we left the place was a zoo. They are only open in the morning on Saturdays, and they had eighty, yes, 8 – 0, adoptive families to process that morning. Wow. This all went quite smoothly. Hannah was doing fine and we were really thankful that Samuel, the little boy another family in our group has adopted, also sailed through without incident. He had been struggling with a fever while we were in Lanzhou, and we were concerned that this could derail the forward motion for this family and potentially lengthen their stay in China.
On Sunday, we gathered as a group for a short time after breakfast and each family had a brief opportunity to share about how God has been working, either to bring them to the place of adopting or since we had arrived in China and met our children. This was a very special and meaningful time. After our little service we met Helen in the lobby again and we were off to do some sight seeing and shopping.
Monday, today, several of us had our US Consulate appointments. This involved taking an oath on behalf of our newly adopted child and handing over the child’s passport for the visa to be processed. This all went very quickly and smoothly, for which we were very grateful. After we got back to the hotel we found Grammy Bev and Daniel playing with another family on the children’s playground at the hotel. We then went back to Shamian Island, a place we had visited yesterday with our guide and the larger group. We took a taxi, with Jim and Tina Lutz and their children in the taxi in front of us, over to the island where we did some more independent shopping and had lunch. The Lutz’s are in the process of adopting their third child from China, so they have done this a few times and even know some of the shop keepers on the island. Daniel has really come to love the Lutz family, and he wants to be with them whenever he can. They have been so kind to him, including him in their family meals at times, carrying him, playing with him. It has been a joy to get to know them a bit on this trip.
Tomorrow will be our last day in Guangzhou. Around 3:00 tomorrow afternoon we will board a private van and be driven three plus hours from Guangzhou to Hong Kong. We will stay overnight in the Hong Kong airport hotel, and then catch a flight back to the US later on Wednesday morning. We are so ready for this trip to end. It has been incredible, unbelievable, mysterious, strange, wonderful, difficult, challenging, beautiful … and long. I walked past Hannah sleeping in her hotel pack-and-play a little while ago and looked down at her. She is barely more than a stranger, but she is my daughter. My daughter! Wow, I have a daughter. That is what this trip has brought about.
Over on the other side of the room are piles of dirty laundry. With very few exceptions that’s all we have left in terms of clothing options for the next few days. We’ll pick the least dirty, least smelly things for the next couple of days and eagerly look forward to being able to wash and dry our clothes in our own laundry room in a few days. We sent out some laundry while we were in Lanzhou. We thought we’d have time for a few loads to be sent out, so we only sent out our light colored dirty clothes. They came back the next day with the bill. Over $50 US dollars!! Needless to say, our darks and reds never got washed. And of course it didn’t take too long before our lights were dirty again. We bought a couple of things over the last day or so. It was cheaper to buy new shirts than to have ours washed again!
Tomorrow we will pack again and begin the return trip. We are eager to get home. We are eager to brush our teeth in water we don’t have to boil first, or bottled water. I am so thankful for safe water that comes right out of our faucets in the US. I am thankful for our comfortable home with space to put things and that we can leave cramped living in a hotel room behind us for a little while. Most of all though I am thankful for our precious little daughter who is changing things up for us completely! I am thankful for the precious families we have been on this journey with. They have become dear friends and a part of me feels like we can’t go on without them. We have been through this life changing event together and I wish we could just keep moving on in our lives as a group because there is mutual understanding of what we have all just been through. I know we will all stay in touch, and Facebook does provide a wonderful place for that to happen, as we will be eager for updates on the other dear little children who have been taken into their forever families on this trip. There will be surgeries and therapies for most of them, and we will be eager to know how each of them is doing through these experiences. We hope to be able to gather together with them from time to time. For four of us, our children have longer histories with each other than we do since they lived together for well over a year before they came to us. We are enriched from knowing these families, and traveling this part of our journey together. We will never be the same. I’m glad for that.